Dr. Karen Winterle is the author of a self-help book called Is My Husband Bisexual. Chapter one takes a client from discovery through the healing process to recovery. The client receives an education about the dynamics of a bisexual that did not come out of the closet and how her naivety caused her to be a magnet for a bisexual that wanted to live in a heterosexual world.
Part 11 of the book provides a checklist of clues if you suspect your partner may be bisexual, characteristics of a bisexual, sex addiction, narcissism, low self-esteem, PTSD, survival skills, the grieving process, a checklist to consider for a pending divorce and lessons learned.
I am located in SW Florida and available for psychotherapy. My website is www.ismyhusbandbisexual.com for further information. I am also available for phone consultation at 570-877-1036.
Saturday, August 2, 2014
Monday, July 14, 2014
Ten indications your spouse might be bisexual.
The following behaviors might indicate your partner is having an affair or bisexual.
1. If you suspect he is gay, trust your gut. This is known as gaydar. Your gut is telling you that something is different about him. He is crossing gender roles.
2. He begins to hang out with people who have few heterosexual friends.
3. He suddenly wants to go on vacation with a man.
4. Your sex life suddenly slows or halts. It may be that sex is desired more often.
5. You check his computer and discover he is visiting homosexual sites or chatrooms.
6. You check his cell phone and find calls to someone you don't know.
7. He is asking you what your schedule is but not accounting for his schedule.
8. You check his wallet and find a condom.
9. His style of kissing or making love changes.
10. He begins to talk about men who are coming out of the closet.
1. If you suspect he is gay, trust your gut. This is known as gaydar. Your gut is telling you that something is different about him. He is crossing gender roles.
2. He begins to hang out with people who have few heterosexual friends.
3. He suddenly wants to go on vacation with a man.
4. Your sex life suddenly slows or halts. It may be that sex is desired more often.
5. You check his computer and discover he is visiting homosexual sites or chatrooms.
6. You check his cell phone and find calls to someone you don't know.
7. He is asking you what your schedule is but not accounting for his schedule.
8. You check his wallet and find a condom.
9. His style of kissing or making love changes.
10. He begins to talk about men who are coming out of the closet.
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
BISEXUAL SPOUSE
This is a blog about the discovery of a bisexual spouse. My name is Dr. Karen Winterle and I am a psychotherapist relocated to south west Florida to start a new private practice. I have experience working with the discovery of a bisexual spouse, the healing process onto recovery. A client, Mary shares her story so that other woman can know there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Mary experiences the discovery of a bisexual spouse after 14 years of marriage. She was hysterical and felt helpless as to what to do to handle discovery of a bisexual spouse and this horrific trauma. I asked her if she had confronted him. He said he refused to talk about it and walked away. Mary began to share her story about what was happening in her marriage. She said he asked to go away on a motorcycle vacation with another couple without her. They had always vacationed together. Then she found a strip of condoms hidden in his shoe in the closet. Her tubes were tied and he had a vasectomy. Mary shared that her spouse, Jake, had begun to change about five months ago. Then she shared his style of kissing and making love had changed. Clues of an affair, ménage a trois or bisexuality were indicated. I shared that upon discovery of a bisexual spouse it is important not to jump to conclusions. He may not be acting on his bisexuality. And the discovery of a bisexual spouse does not mean the marriage is over.
Mary experiences the discovery of a bisexual spouse after 14 years of marriage. She was hysterical and felt helpless as to what to do to handle discovery of a bisexual spouse and this horrific trauma. I asked her if she had confronted him. He said he refused to talk about it and walked away. Mary began to share her story about what was happening in her marriage. She said he asked to go away on a motorcycle vacation with another couple without her. They had always vacationed together. Then she found a strip of condoms hidden in his shoe in the closet. Her tubes were tied and he had a vasectomy. Mary shared that her spouse, Jake, had begun to change about five months ago. Then she shared his style of kissing and making love had changed. Clues of an affair, ménage a trois or bisexuality were indicated. I shared that upon discovery of a bisexual spouse it is important not to jump to conclusions. He may not be acting on his bisexuality. And the discovery of a bisexual spouse does not mean the marriage is over.
Suspect an Affair
Today my partner came home and asked if he could go away without me. Something he had never done. I hesitated but said yes since our relationship was falling apart, thinking the time away would give him time to think. I suspect an affair but can't prove it. What can I look for if I suspect an affair?
First of great importance if you suspect an affair is trust your gut. Next, suspect an affair if he wants to go away without you when you have always vacationed together. Has your sex life slowed or halted, suspect an affair? Check the browser history on your computer and emails if you suspect an affair. Check his cell phone for texts and calls from people you do not know if you suspect an affair.
First of great importance if you suspect an affair is trust your gut. Next, suspect an affair if he wants to go away without you when you have always vacationed together. Has your sex life slowed or halted, suspect an affair? Check the browser history on your computer and emails if you suspect an affair. Check his cell phone for texts and calls from people you do not know if you suspect an affair.
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